All of our kids have been great negotiators. They have a way of bringing up options that are not even presented. I had a friend explain it about her daughter like this. "If given the choice A or B , she gives a strong argument for non-existent C, D or E."
Well today Tucker joined the group. I asked the kids what they wanted for lunch. Hot dogs, PB &J, or dang quesadillas. I started taking orders and when I got to Tucker he announced "ARBY's!"